You gotta love yourself first.

- because in the end - you will be all you have.

Men will love you for it, because in reality, they just share that love with you - sounds paradoxical - but when you sit and figure out how to explain this - that's the only time you will know - put yourself as number one for a while. Once they figure out that you still have yourself to love you, that's when they feel the insecurity - remember, A man loves a strong woman, fears a weak woman, and plays with a stupid woman.

There's only really 3 kinds of us in their heads - be the first of the three! Nothing is guaranteed - only your love of yourself is.